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Know the signs of Domestic Violence

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Recognizing signs that someone is experiencing domestic violence can be challenging because victims often try to conceal their situation out of fear, shame, or dependency. Here are some signs that may indicate someone is experiencing abuse.

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Physical Injuries:

Frequent unexplained injuries, such as bruises, black eyes, cuts, or broken bones, may be a clear sign of physical abuse.

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Emotional Abuse:

Also known as psychological abuse, involves manipulating and controlling someone’s behavior through the use of emotional abusive strategies.  

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Sexual Abuse:

This involves any unwanted, nonconsensual sexual activity.

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Isolation:

If someone becomes increasingly isolated from friends and family, especially if they were previously social and outgoing, it could be a sign of an abuser trying to control their social connections.

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Changes in Behavior:

Sudden and noticeable changes in behavior, such as increased anxiety, depression, withdrawal, or emotional instability, might indicate

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Fear or Anxiety:

A constant sense of fear or anxiety around their partner, or visibly flinching or appearing on edge in their presence, can be a sign of abuse.

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Controlled Finances:

If someone has limited or no control over their own finances, with their partner controlling all money and resources, it can be a sign of financial abuse.

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Excessive Absences:

Frequently absences from work, school, or social activities with vague or inconsistent explanations might be a red flag.

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Excessive Monitoring:

Being overly monitored by their partner, including constant calls, texts, or tracking their whereabouts, is a sign of control and potential abuse.

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Low Self-Esteem:

A sudden decline in self-esteem, self-worth, or self-confidence may be a result of emotional or psychological abuse.

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Changes in Appearance:

A noticeable change in personal appearance, such as a decline in grooming or frequent changes in clothing to cover injuries, may be a sign.

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Limited Autonomy:

If someone has very limited decision-making power or is constantly seeking permission from their partner for even minor choices, it may indicate an abusive relationship.

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Unexplained Anxiety Around the Abuser:

If someone is visibly anxious or nervous when their partner is present, it could be because they fear the consequences of upsetting them.

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Attempts to Cover Up Injuries:

Wearing concealing clothing, even in warm weather, or offering inconsistent explanations for injuries may indicate abuse.

APPROACH

WITH SENSITIVITY AND SUPPORT

If you suspect someone is experiencing domestic violence, it's important to approach the situation with sensitivity and support. Encourage them to talk about their feelings and concerns in a safe, non-judgmental environment. Offer assistance in finding local resources or contacting a domestic violence hotline. Keep in mind that leaving an abusive relationship can be difficult and dangerous, so prioritizing their safety is crucial.

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NAAV - Native Alliance Against Violen

A resource hub for Oklahoma's Tribal DVSA programs - sorted by tribes in Oklahoma.

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DVIS - Domestic Violence Resources

Domestic Violence Intervention Services

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